Link's 21st Birthday

Just found out that one of my besties, Link

She had the same birthday with my brother
19th of September 1989
Which means both of them are 21st this year
21st birthday!

She held a barbecue party
and me, as her friend was invited to attend the party
It's not easy to have a barbecue party
As many preparation need to be done before this

This is one of it
The troublesome part

You have to buy those ingredients for barbecue party
Chicken wings, Ham, sausages, honey, fishballs etc
Me and my love helped her out
We did some grocery shopping during noon

Barbecue party started around 8pm

That's me and EvaThanks for the delicious sausage
Prepared by her
♥
People who attended the barbecue party
Everyone was busy barbecuing
except for me
I just wait there and someone will prepare the food for me
XD
Mid-Autumn Festival was around the corner by that time
We light up the lanterns
Hang it up on the tree^^
Love the atmosphere
3 of us
From the left
Teddy, Me and Link
Sambal prawn

They look like pro chef isn't it XD

It's kinda relaxing that night
Because the barbecue party was held beside the swimming pool
We can soak our legs into the pool
While enjoying our meal
Okay
Let me officially introduce u guys the birthday girl
Tadaaa~~
Link and me =)

5 of us
Best friends
The gang that I used to hang out with
Funny and adorable friends^^

Time to bring out her birthday cake
It's from Secret Recipe =)

Link and her girlfriend,Eva
Sweet couple ♥
4 of us
Friendship forever!

Her housemates
Another pair of couple

Her friends

Hmm
What's her birthday wish?
Look cute right? =P
Well, her wish is to win lottery, RM10mil
LOL

After the birthday cake session,
Time to play~~
We played like a kid
Lanterns and candles everywhere
It brought back my memories during childhood

The 3 rabbits

3 of us where born at the same year
1987 ~

The two pretty ladies
The precious one ♥Love the sparks
So nice^^
After that,
Let's chill inside the pool
Had some beer while in the pool
Awesome moment! =D
Happy birthday Link~

珍惜

以前的人都能够长命百岁
没有100都有80岁
生活简单的关系吗
一辈子也是这样来的
只因为他们能够一起活到老
看着自己的老伴从黑发变成白发
脸上开始长皱纹
一起经历很多人生中的事情

但随着时间的流逝
世界的改变
人类的生活开始多样化 变得复杂
人类就变得像泡沫
泡沫是短暂的
它 只有一瞬间的美丽
"啵"一声就消失了
只维持了短短的那几秒

现在的人类也一样
常常突然因为一场意外或一场病
身边至亲至爱的突然离开你身边
很多的来不及
来不及对他说的话
来不及对他做的事
统统都成为了不可能

不可能再听见他的声音
不可能看见他的身影
你会因为所有的不可能而流泪
甚至会开始后悔
后悔当初怎么都不会珍惜
珍惜能够在一起的每一份每一秒

时间是残酷的
时间是不能够倒带
这一切都不能够重来
没有所谓的"早知道"
朋友们
好好的珍惜身边每一个人
不要等到失去了
才来后悔
=)

【完】

I ❤ September

It's been a while i never update my bloggie

Kinda miss my blog

Where have i been all these time?

One word, BUSY!

Hey peeps,

It's September

My month!! =D

Which i love it sOoo much

I had lotsa activities during this month

Hang out with my dearest friends pretty often

and of course,

The one who i love ♥

A short update from me

I'll be start working on 15th of October

Fyi, I'll move back to KL

Cheers =D

But, will stay in Kepong

So far away from my friends

It doesn't matter

As long as i'm still in KL

I love KL's life a lot

Hahaha

Time to get myself ready for my new job

as Purchasing Assistant

After my long long vacation

Half a year~long enough huh

I did enjoy alot for the past few months

Thank you everyone who makes my life better n happier

Love, xoxo

=)

Coming post,

Activities with friends

Stay tune!

維持異地戀的首要條件

勇气

异地恋，首先需要的是勇气，一种敢于挑战现实的勇气，一种能够承担任何风险的勇气，一种能够坦然面对失败的勇气。要明白，现实是一股强大而又无形的力量，我们都无法预计将要发生的情况，但可以拿出勇气来与这股力量抗衡，我们也可以拿出勇气来接受失败的结果。

忠诚

在异地没有恋人的相伴很容易产生一种心理上的孤独，而这种孤独会勾起内心的渴望以及欲念。也只有绝对的忠诚才能抵挡住来自花花世界的诱惑。忠诚不是"傻"，它是对感情的尊重和对自己的尊重；忠诚不是"痴"，它是一种高尚人格的提炼；忠诚不是"呆"，它是一种道德和一种责任。

信任

异地恋给了对方一种遐想的空间，同时也会让对方产生一种不安全感，并引起对对方的胡乱猜疑，而爱情往往在这些猜疑中慢慢地被消溶殆尽。因此，信任是情人之间互相尊重平等关系的体现，建立信任的桥梁是巩固异地恋最行之有效的方法。而缺乏信任的爱情只会在彼此猜疑中变得不堪一击。

理解

理解是建立在信任的基础上，没有信任就无从去理解，不要因为一方工作的繁忙或者其他事情的缠绕没有及时联系而大发雷霆，要知道，现实的压力不会让大家轻松过活，所以要尽量克制自己的情绪，学会理解对方，并体谅对方的辛苦，在精神上做彼此的支柱。这样，理解也会成为两人感情升温的调节器。

沟通

异地恋除了时空带来的距离，心理上的距离也不能忽视，沟通是维持感情并拉近距离的最好方式。不当的沟通可以让距离变成一种障碍，而适当的沟通则可以让距离变成一种动力，所以沟通既是门艺术，也是门学问。

目标

异地恋应该锁定一个目标，而不应该自生自灭，其实异地恋最终的目标就是创造相同生活的条件，因为相爱的人终不能生活在美丽却遥不可及的两个环境里，并蒂的莲花终是要生长在同一片泥土里，既然相爱就要相守。不论如何，都应该全力争取。

忍耐

异地恋等待多过相伴的日子，所以两个人都要忍耐寂寞，忍耐没有拥抱的寒冷，忍耐每天只能倒数计时的焦急。但是要知道，异地恋就是在和时间赛跑，你坚持住了，就胜利了，被时间打败了，就会一辈子错过那个人。所以一定要在异地恋情马拉松中再坚持一下，在坚持一下，只要你能跑完，不需要取得名次，你就赢了！

距离是一份考卷，测量相爱的誓言，最后会不会实现

Unbelievable

Oh my god
It's so unbelievable~~

我真系接受唔到咯~


You guys must be wondering what happened
What makes me that can't accept it

Who?
What?

Nahh
Don't be curious

I'll let you guys know the answer

The answer is....

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Tadaaaa~~~

I made myself lunch
I cooked this two dishes

Cabbage and baked beans =)

Oh my~~
Fyi
I don't cook at all
But not this time
Mom is away
I have to cook for my younger brother

Appearance look not bad
But how about the taste?

Hmm...
I've tasted it
Not bad
Still acceptable


Satisfied!

I'm A Mom now

Hey guys!

I'm a Mom now
Most of you will wonder i'm a mom of a BABY?
NO no nono..
Don't think about that
It's actually i be the temporary "Mom" of my family

My mother went for Indonesia for vacation with friends
Left me and brother at home
Dad's gonna work
So, Me as the eldest sis
Have to take over my mom's role
Take care of the family

It's not easy to be a mom
I know it now...
Now i have to wake up early everyday
To do house chores
Tons and tons of house chore are waiting for me
Grrr...

Wash clothes
Sweep and mop the floor
Cook
Wash dishes
Bla bla bla



It's very tiring
Aww
My mom is a superwoman huh
Because those are her daily routine
I will help her more often in future
Just to lighten her burden
People,
you too need to help to do house chores when u're free ya
=)

Merdeka Eve @ Mist

Merdeka Eve

How u guys pass your time during this night?

Stay at home with your lovers?

Went to Genting? Or Clubs?

Well for me

My first plan was to stay at home

Because i was so lazy to take KTM to KL

with crowded people

But when clock ticked to 9pm

One of my crazy friends called me up

He's coming from KL to pick me up

o.O

I was like

What the hell? Are you serious?

I couldn't believe his words

And i regret at last

Why?

He showed up right in front of my house at Seremban!

Oh my~

No choice

I have to follow him for party bash that night

We went to Mist Club

My 2nd time been there =)

Me
Wearing Jack's spec
Hahaha

That's the owner of the spec^^

Liquor for that night
2 bottles of Black Label and 2 jug of Beer
Never ever try to mix these two together
You'll regret >.<
Oopsss
Get caught in action =p

Surprise!!
Ex-Utarians =D
I never expect they will appeared there
I was so shocked to see them
Keep yelling
"Oh my god!Oh my god!"
LOL
It's good to meet them again

Me and Ice

Sweet couple
Look at the crowd downstairs
>.<
My bro during Utar
Ladies~
Happy to see them that night too
So many surprise =p
Some of the random shots

I love this pic
Talk to my hand~~!
Orz

Let's party ppl~~
Drink drank drunk

I looked so blur in this pic =.=
Effect of mixing beer with Black Label
Zzzz...



Oopsss
Drunk?Tired?

Lastly,
Met a new friend there
She's cute n HOT!
Elaine the hottie =D
She can dance v well man~~~
Hmm
I did enjoy that night
I met my long lost friends
That made me in a good mood that night =)
Thank you guys!